Valarie Kaur’s beautiful brilliant Revolutionary Love Project compass offers an orientation and practices to find love for others who are experiencing harm, love for our opponents, and love for ourselves.
Absolutely core to this work is understanding this is something we do as community – to know we all have different roles to play in each moment, and to trust our body as a guide to what is right for us.
I’d highly recommend following the content at valariekaur.com, or the brilliant series that is US based but applicable to all at The People’s Inauguration. Here is a taster of what you can find there…
Love others – See no stranger
How do we cultivate our love for others, our willingness to take action to protect what is at risk of harm?
How can we look at any other living being with the mindset ‘you are a part of me I do not yet know’…
Revolutionary love gives 3 practices…
1. Cultivate wonder
Seeing others with wonder, being curious about their story, what breaks their heart, what they want and care for.
“I am defining wonder as letting in a sense of awe and openness, deep curiosity. It is to look upon the face of anyone or anything and say ‘you are a part of me, I do not yet know’. Its an orientation of humility. Wondering about another person, their thoughts and experiences, their pains and joys, their wants and needs, gives us information for how to love them. It’s how we have learned how to love our partners, our children, our friends. Now when we wonder about those who we would otherwise see as strangers, let even them inside of our circle of care, then wonder becomes an act of revolutionary love.”
2. Grieve together
Whose grief have we not let into our heart? Coming together to grieve, knowing someone else’s story and letting in their pain, saying ‘you grieve, and you do not grieve alone’. This is part of how we love others.
3. Fight together
From wonder and grieving together, noticing the impulse from inside us to want to act, to prevent harm, to show up in active solidarity, to be there as an accomplice from a place of love.
Up next… Love our opponents >